BDSM.com

The name of this “dating” site should tell you everything you need to know about BDSM.com. If you’ve got a kink that is too hardcore to just spring up on your partner, this is the place to go to. From small kinks categories to serious roleplaying and alternative action, everything is up for grabs here. While good portion of what you can see on BDSM.com is just video online experience, the members can arrange for real life dates if they feel like it. The site may be smaller then some of the other popular dating sites, but the community is really hardcore and alternative, and they’re always up for new experiences.

ALT.com

Alternative lifestyle often brings people more trouble then benefits, especially with the love life, sometimes it’s just too hard finding someone who will share your kinks with you. ALT.com is a site that is dedicated to helping people with alternative lifestyles meet up. The site is filled with personals of men and women with various kinks, from innocent ones like wet Tshirts and spanking to more hardcore ones. While it is advertised as dating site and nothing else, most of the members of the site are looking for something more interesting then just dating, so if you want to get access to millions of women and men with a thing for BDSM, anal and all other forms of dynamic alternative adult action, this is the place to go to.

AdultFriendFinder.com

Interested in dating beyond the small community around you? With Adult Friend Finder you can do just that, with over 40 million members and over two million of the profiles being active within 24 hours your chances of striking true and finding someone interested in dating and/or any other adult activity dramatically increase. Profiles can be sorted through by country and by Zip code, so you can easily scan your area. These are all real people looking for real adventures, so get your swag on and dip your toe into the best tool for finding dates online.