Passion.com

No matter if it’s a male looking for a female to play with or a female trying to expand her horizons with people from out of her social circle, Passion.com gives you exactly what you need. The advanced personals dating site is focused on erotica and sexual games more then on just dating, and best of all, becoming a member is free. The archives of personals are pretty decent in size and are always growing, so there’s a good chance you can find your match here.

NoStringsAttached.com

Sometimes dating can be too big of a hassle to go through, if you’re in the mood to spend your time with someone who you KNOW is interested in more then just friendship, then checking out NoStringsAttached.com may be a very good idea. This site is a collection of personal adds and profiles that will introduce you to the easy side of the world of dating. Of course, it still relies on your charm and wit to seal the deal, but with No Strings Attached service you will find more amenable partners for you with ease.

GetItOn.com

GetItOn adult dating site gives all of it’s members tests to fill out, small personality quizzes and asks you to fill out some of the personal info, all for the purpose of finding you the perfect sexual match! With easy to use tools and big member archive you’re sure to find a partner from your area. All age groups are represented here, so dive in and find your match. Joining the site is free as is browsing the big archives. The advanced services include erotic webcam chat and exchange of personal information for real serious dates.

BDSM.com

The name of this “dating” site should tell you everything you need to know about BDSM.com. If you’ve got a kink that is too hardcore to just spring up on your partner, this is the place to go to. From small kinks categories to serious roleplaying and alternative action, everything is up for grabs here. While good portion of what you can see on BDSM.com is just video online experience, the members can arrange for real life dates if they feel like it. The site may be smaller then some of the other popular dating sites, but the community is really hardcore and alternative, and they’re always up for new experiences.

ALT.com

Alternative lifestyle often brings people more trouble then benefits, especially with the love life, sometimes it’s just too hard finding someone who will share your kinks with you. ALT.com is a site that is dedicated to helping people with alternative lifestyles meet up. The site is filled with personals of men and women with various kinks, from innocent ones like wet Tshirts and spanking to more hardcore ones. While it is advertised as dating site and nothing else, most of the members of the site are looking for something more interesting then just dating, so if you want to get access to millions of women and men with a thing for BDSM, anal and all other forms of dynamic alternative adult action, this is the place to go to.

AdultFriendFinder.com

Interested in dating beyond the small community around you? With Adult Friend Finder you can do just that, with over 40 million members and over two million of the profiles being active within 24 hours your chances of striking true and finding someone interested in dating and/or any other adult activity dramatically increase. Profiles can be sorted through by country and by Zip code, so you can easily scan your area. These are all real people looking for real adventures, so get your swag on and dip your toe into the best tool for finding dates online.